Why do they not say “The Baby”Why use “the” for oceans/seas/rivers etc. but not lakes?Why is there no article in “The Child is father of the man”?Why isn’t the definite article used in “The commission commanded that work […] should cease”?Why no “the” or “a” here?Which is right and why: Why do people go (to zoos/to zoo/to the zoo)?Why the zero article in “in daily life” and “became pointless talking”?“I saw Sue in town yesterday, but she didn't see me.” Why is there no article before “town”?Why is it “time of day” but “hour of the day”?Why is the article omitted before “climate change”?Why isn't there any article in the expression “vary from school to school”?

I have just 4 hours a month to security check a cloud based application - How to use my time?

Options for installing sub-panel

Is it against a Terms of Service/End-User License Agreement to not read it?

Famous statistical wins and horror stories for teaching purposes

The correct capital G and J in cursive

How can I use Callout to label the segments of a piecewise function?

Is intra-EU movement/migration of EU/EUAA citizens a sizeable contributor to illegal work?

How to draw a vertical line table

`dd` does not create bootable Ubuntu iso

Forcing and new ordinals

Is a vector space naturally isomorphic to its dual?

How to draw a double napped cone with TikZ

Why is Trump moving to Florida?

Can dual US-Canadian citizens travel to the US with an expired US passport but valid Canadian passport?

Was the Berlin Wall Breached Based upon an Erroneous Declaration?

What would a life-form be like if it's antimatter-based

Fantasy movie with a deaf man, strong man who hurls cannon balls and a flying ship

Why does the Bug drink sugar water in MiB?

Why is it possible to teach real numbers before even rigorously defining them?

Max of the reversed of two numbers

Should plywood be missing on my roof?

Equity-efficiency tradeoff examples

Ask Google to remove thousands of pages from its index after cleaning up from hacked site

How can I find a parametric equation for an implicit surface?



Why do they not say “The Baby”


Why use “the” for oceans/seas/rivers etc. but not lakes?Why is there no article in “The Child is father of the man”?Why isn’t the definite article used in “The commission commanded that work […] should cease”?Why no “the” or “a” here?Which is right and why: Why do people go (to zoos/to zoo/to the zoo)?Why the zero article in “in daily life” and “became pointless talking”?“I saw Sue in town yesterday, but she didn't see me.” Why is there no article before “town”?Why is it “time of day” but “hour of the day”?Why is the article omitted before “climate change”?Why isn't there any article in the expression “vary from school to school”?






.everyoneloves__top-leaderboard:empty,.everyoneloves__mid-leaderboard:empty,.everyoneloves__bot-mid-leaderboard:empty
margin-bottom:0;









20

















https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HkXnhlCkVPM



In this video he says "put baby in" and not "put the baby in"
Also, in other baby type videos they say "place baby inside" or "now you can see that baby and mom are happy"



There is no "the baby" or "the baby's mom" or "the mom".



The video is one example of many. I asked someone who said it is something to do with the agenda of keeping people happy and not offended by mentioning a gender. I don't think this is true though.










share|improve this question























  • 3





    People frequently don't speak in a way that would be considered grammatical if the same words were used in writing.

    – Jason Bassford Supports Monica
    Jul 13 at 16:26






  • 23





    they aren’t saying “put baby in” they’re saying, “put Baby in.” :-)

    – Jim
    Jul 13 at 18:40






  • 3





    Just pointing out that this kind of usage is much more common in British English than American. It's got nothing to do with gender politics, this has been very common usage in British English for decades if not longer.

    – Goodbye Ms Chipps
    Jul 14 at 0:55







  • 5





    English articles don't have gender - how would "the baby" indicate a gender? Which one would it indicate?

    – Blorgbeard
    Jul 14 at 1:25






  • 2





    This question could use more context, rather than relying on the reader watching the video.

    – Acccumulation
    Jul 14 at 17:52

















20

















https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HkXnhlCkVPM



In this video he says "put baby in" and not "put the baby in"
Also, in other baby type videos they say "place baby inside" or "now you can see that baby and mom are happy"



There is no "the baby" or "the baby's mom" or "the mom".



The video is one example of many. I asked someone who said it is something to do with the agenda of keeping people happy and not offended by mentioning a gender. I don't think this is true though.










share|improve this question























  • 3





    People frequently don't speak in a way that would be considered grammatical if the same words were used in writing.

    – Jason Bassford Supports Monica
    Jul 13 at 16:26






  • 23





    they aren’t saying “put baby in” they’re saying, “put Baby in.” :-)

    – Jim
    Jul 13 at 18:40






  • 3





    Just pointing out that this kind of usage is much more common in British English than American. It's got nothing to do with gender politics, this has been very common usage in British English for decades if not longer.

    – Goodbye Ms Chipps
    Jul 14 at 0:55







  • 5





    English articles don't have gender - how would "the baby" indicate a gender? Which one would it indicate?

    – Blorgbeard
    Jul 14 at 1:25






  • 2





    This question could use more context, rather than relying on the reader watching the video.

    – Acccumulation
    Jul 14 at 17:52













20












20








20


1






https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HkXnhlCkVPM



In this video he says "put baby in" and not "put the baby in"
Also, in other baby type videos they say "place baby inside" or "now you can see that baby and mom are happy"



There is no "the baby" or "the baby's mom" or "the mom".



The video is one example of many. I asked someone who said it is something to do with the agenda of keeping people happy and not offended by mentioning a gender. I don't think this is true though.










share|improve this question

















https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HkXnhlCkVPM



In this video he says "put baby in" and not "put the baby in"
Also, in other baby type videos they say "place baby inside" or "now you can see that baby and mom are happy"



There is no "the baby" or "the baby's mom" or "the mom".



The video is one example of many. I asked someone who said it is something to do with the agenda of keeping people happy and not offended by mentioning a gender. I don't think this is true though.







zero-article






share|improve this question
















share|improve this question













share|improve this question




share|improve this question








edited Jul 13 at 20:00









Matt E. Эллен

25.9k14 gold badges90 silver badges154 bronze badges




25.9k14 gold badges90 silver badges154 bronze badges










asked Jul 13 at 16:22









TheBlackBenzKidTheBlackBenzKid

2212 silver badges8 bronze badges




2212 silver badges8 bronze badges










  • 3





    People frequently don't speak in a way that would be considered grammatical if the same words were used in writing.

    – Jason Bassford Supports Monica
    Jul 13 at 16:26






  • 23





    they aren’t saying “put baby in” they’re saying, “put Baby in.” :-)

    – Jim
    Jul 13 at 18:40






  • 3





    Just pointing out that this kind of usage is much more common in British English than American. It's got nothing to do with gender politics, this has been very common usage in British English for decades if not longer.

    – Goodbye Ms Chipps
    Jul 14 at 0:55







  • 5





    English articles don't have gender - how would "the baby" indicate a gender? Which one would it indicate?

    – Blorgbeard
    Jul 14 at 1:25






  • 2





    This question could use more context, rather than relying on the reader watching the video.

    – Acccumulation
    Jul 14 at 17:52












  • 3





    People frequently don't speak in a way that would be considered grammatical if the same words were used in writing.

    – Jason Bassford Supports Monica
    Jul 13 at 16:26






  • 23





    they aren’t saying “put baby in” they’re saying, “put Baby in.” :-)

    – Jim
    Jul 13 at 18:40






  • 3





    Just pointing out that this kind of usage is much more common in British English than American. It's got nothing to do with gender politics, this has been very common usage in British English for decades if not longer.

    – Goodbye Ms Chipps
    Jul 14 at 0:55







  • 5





    English articles don't have gender - how would "the baby" indicate a gender? Which one would it indicate?

    – Blorgbeard
    Jul 14 at 1:25






  • 2





    This question could use more context, rather than relying on the reader watching the video.

    – Acccumulation
    Jul 14 at 17:52







3




3





People frequently don't speak in a way that would be considered grammatical if the same words were used in writing.

– Jason Bassford Supports Monica
Jul 13 at 16:26





People frequently don't speak in a way that would be considered grammatical if the same words were used in writing.

– Jason Bassford Supports Monica
Jul 13 at 16:26




23




23





they aren’t saying “put baby in” they’re saying, “put Baby in.” :-)

– Jim
Jul 13 at 18:40





they aren’t saying “put baby in” they’re saying, “put Baby in.” :-)

– Jim
Jul 13 at 18:40




3




3





Just pointing out that this kind of usage is much more common in British English than American. It's got nothing to do with gender politics, this has been very common usage in British English for decades if not longer.

– Goodbye Ms Chipps
Jul 14 at 0:55






Just pointing out that this kind of usage is much more common in British English than American. It's got nothing to do with gender politics, this has been very common usage in British English for decades if not longer.

– Goodbye Ms Chipps
Jul 14 at 0:55





5




5





English articles don't have gender - how would "the baby" indicate a gender? Which one would it indicate?

– Blorgbeard
Jul 14 at 1:25





English articles don't have gender - how would "the baby" indicate a gender? Which one would it indicate?

– Blorgbeard
Jul 14 at 1:25




2




2





This question could use more context, rather than relying on the reader watching the video.

– Acccumulation
Jul 14 at 17:52





This question could use more context, rather than relying on the reader watching the video.

– Acccumulation
Jul 14 at 17:52










3 Answers
3






active

oldest

votes


















38


















'Baby' and 'Mom' are being used as substitutes for names, just as you might say to a small child 'Where's Mommy?' rather than 'Where is your mother?'






share|improve this answer


























  • There are a lot answers on this forum and I believe each are subjective so I will mark one as correct but I feel it is subjective so I have given plus points to others

    – TheBlackBenzKid
    Sep 10 at 9:44


















14


















Saying just 'baby' or just 'mom' is using those words as names.



Using 'the' in front of the other person is like using the third person for yourself. Without 'the' it's like you're using their first name as though it is 'Baby'. It sounds weird and is probably weirder sounding than using 'the', because 'baby' is a weird name for someone). But it is the way to refer to babies in these situations.



I don't think it is transferable to other situations. For example, you don't usually say 'Boxer then plants his fist in Opponent's jawbone'






share|improve this answer























  • 4





    My 16 year-old is called "Baby" in the family as she is the youngest, just as her mother is called "Baby" by her mother still, even though she is past 50...so I don't think it sounds weird. Also, do you remember "Dirty Dancing"?

    – Cascabel
    Jul 13 at 20:53






  • 1





    @Cascabel Yes, of course. But in the specific context of the OP, it is definitely strange sounding.

    – Mitch
    Jul 13 at 21:35












  • I guess it depends on the relationship of the speaker to the little tike.;) I have to confess I was to lazy to go off-page and listen the the sound bite.

    – Cascabel
    Jul 13 at 21:37







  • 8





    This wording provides a way to personalize the infant without having to know a name. It's a way of taking specific instructions like you would give to a person you know, and generalizing them for a larger audience, while still retaining a sense of individuality. Each audience member can substitute their own baby everywhere the narrator says "Baby." It's also friendlier and less detached, which is good in promotional materials.

    – Goodbye Ms Chipps
    Jul 14 at 0:58



















1


















In the BBC series "The Midwife", which follows a group of midwives in London's East End in the 50's, they use this all the time. The midwife will say something like "Well done, mom! You have a beautiful boy!" And "Here's baby, why don't you try feeding her."

It creates a kind of professional intimacy: the woman is the midwife's patient but it's a bit more than getting the child delivered. The midwife often spends hours with the woman during the delivery, guiding her through a messy, physical, life-changing event, especially if it's a first child. Addressing the woman as 'mom' stresses the transition into her new role. Likewise, speaking of the child as 'baby' gives it a more personal touch without becoming too specific: it's not about little Jenny or Johnny as an individual but about its functioning needs as a baby.






share|improve this answer



























    Your Answer








    StackExchange.ready(function()
    var channelOptions =
    tags: "".split(" "),
    id: "97"
    ;
    initTagRenderer("".split(" "), "".split(" "), channelOptions);

    StackExchange.using("externalEditor", function()
    // Have to fire editor after snippets, if snippets enabled
    if (StackExchange.settings.snippets.snippetsEnabled)
    StackExchange.using("snippets", function()
    createEditor();
    );

    else
    createEditor();

    );

    function createEditor()
    StackExchange.prepareEditor(
    heartbeatType: 'answer',
    autoActivateHeartbeat: false,
    convertImagesToLinks: false,
    noModals: true,
    showLowRepImageUploadWarning: true,
    reputationToPostImages: null,
    bindNavPrevention: true,
    postfix: "",
    imageUploader:
    brandingHtml: "Powered by u003ca class="icon-imgur-white" href="https://imgur.com/"u003eu003c/au003e",
    contentPolicyHtml: "User contributions licensed under u003ca href="https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/"u003ecc by-sa 4.0 with attribution requiredu003c/au003e u003ca href="https://stackoverflow.com/legal/content-policy"u003e(content policy)u003c/au003e",
    allowUrls: true
    ,
    noCode: true, onDemand: true,
    discardSelector: ".discard-answer"
    ,immediatelyShowMarkdownHelp:true
    );



    );














    draft saved

    draft discarded
















    StackExchange.ready(
    function ()
    StackExchange.openid.initPostLogin('.new-post-login', 'https%3a%2f%2fenglish.stackexchange.com%2fquestions%2f504942%2fwhy-do-they-not-say-the-baby%23new-answer', 'question_page');

    );

    Post as a guest















    Required, but never shown


























    3 Answers
    3






    active

    oldest

    votes








    3 Answers
    3






    active

    oldest

    votes









    active

    oldest

    votes






    active

    oldest

    votes









    38


















    'Baby' and 'Mom' are being used as substitutes for names, just as you might say to a small child 'Where's Mommy?' rather than 'Where is your mother?'






    share|improve this answer


























    • There are a lot answers on this forum and I believe each are subjective so I will mark one as correct but I feel it is subjective so I have given plus points to others

      – TheBlackBenzKid
      Sep 10 at 9:44















    38


















    'Baby' and 'Mom' are being used as substitutes for names, just as you might say to a small child 'Where's Mommy?' rather than 'Where is your mother?'






    share|improve this answer


























    • There are a lot answers on this forum and I believe each are subjective so I will mark one as correct but I feel it is subjective so I have given plus points to others

      – TheBlackBenzKid
      Sep 10 at 9:44













    38














    38










    38









    'Baby' and 'Mom' are being used as substitutes for names, just as you might say to a small child 'Where's Mommy?' rather than 'Where is your mother?'






    share|improve this answer














    'Baby' and 'Mom' are being used as substitutes for names, just as you might say to a small child 'Where's Mommy?' rather than 'Where is your mother?'







    share|improve this answer













    share|improve this answer




    share|improve this answer










    answered Jul 13 at 16:48









    Kate BuntingKate Bunting

    9,3734 gold badges19 silver badges23 bronze badges




    9,3734 gold badges19 silver badges23 bronze badges















    • There are a lot answers on this forum and I believe each are subjective so I will mark one as correct but I feel it is subjective so I have given plus points to others

      – TheBlackBenzKid
      Sep 10 at 9:44

















    • There are a lot answers on this forum and I believe each are subjective so I will mark one as correct but I feel it is subjective so I have given plus points to others

      – TheBlackBenzKid
      Sep 10 at 9:44
















    There are a lot answers on this forum and I believe each are subjective so I will mark one as correct but I feel it is subjective so I have given plus points to others

    – TheBlackBenzKid
    Sep 10 at 9:44





    There are a lot answers on this forum and I believe each are subjective so I will mark one as correct but I feel it is subjective so I have given plus points to others

    – TheBlackBenzKid
    Sep 10 at 9:44













    14


















    Saying just 'baby' or just 'mom' is using those words as names.



    Using 'the' in front of the other person is like using the third person for yourself. Without 'the' it's like you're using their first name as though it is 'Baby'. It sounds weird and is probably weirder sounding than using 'the', because 'baby' is a weird name for someone). But it is the way to refer to babies in these situations.



    I don't think it is transferable to other situations. For example, you don't usually say 'Boxer then plants his fist in Opponent's jawbone'






    share|improve this answer























    • 4





      My 16 year-old is called "Baby" in the family as she is the youngest, just as her mother is called "Baby" by her mother still, even though she is past 50...so I don't think it sounds weird. Also, do you remember "Dirty Dancing"?

      – Cascabel
      Jul 13 at 20:53






    • 1





      @Cascabel Yes, of course. But in the specific context of the OP, it is definitely strange sounding.

      – Mitch
      Jul 13 at 21:35












    • I guess it depends on the relationship of the speaker to the little tike.;) I have to confess I was to lazy to go off-page and listen the the sound bite.

      – Cascabel
      Jul 13 at 21:37







    • 8





      This wording provides a way to personalize the infant without having to know a name. It's a way of taking specific instructions like you would give to a person you know, and generalizing them for a larger audience, while still retaining a sense of individuality. Each audience member can substitute their own baby everywhere the narrator says "Baby." It's also friendlier and less detached, which is good in promotional materials.

      – Goodbye Ms Chipps
      Jul 14 at 0:58
















    14


















    Saying just 'baby' or just 'mom' is using those words as names.



    Using 'the' in front of the other person is like using the third person for yourself. Without 'the' it's like you're using their first name as though it is 'Baby'. It sounds weird and is probably weirder sounding than using 'the', because 'baby' is a weird name for someone). But it is the way to refer to babies in these situations.



    I don't think it is transferable to other situations. For example, you don't usually say 'Boxer then plants his fist in Opponent's jawbone'






    share|improve this answer























    • 4





      My 16 year-old is called "Baby" in the family as she is the youngest, just as her mother is called "Baby" by her mother still, even though she is past 50...so I don't think it sounds weird. Also, do you remember "Dirty Dancing"?

      – Cascabel
      Jul 13 at 20:53






    • 1





      @Cascabel Yes, of course. But in the specific context of the OP, it is definitely strange sounding.

      – Mitch
      Jul 13 at 21:35












    • I guess it depends on the relationship of the speaker to the little tike.;) I have to confess I was to lazy to go off-page and listen the the sound bite.

      – Cascabel
      Jul 13 at 21:37







    • 8





      This wording provides a way to personalize the infant without having to know a name. It's a way of taking specific instructions like you would give to a person you know, and generalizing them for a larger audience, while still retaining a sense of individuality. Each audience member can substitute their own baby everywhere the narrator says "Baby." It's also friendlier and less detached, which is good in promotional materials.

      – Goodbye Ms Chipps
      Jul 14 at 0:58














    14














    14










    14









    Saying just 'baby' or just 'mom' is using those words as names.



    Using 'the' in front of the other person is like using the third person for yourself. Without 'the' it's like you're using their first name as though it is 'Baby'. It sounds weird and is probably weirder sounding than using 'the', because 'baby' is a weird name for someone). But it is the way to refer to babies in these situations.



    I don't think it is transferable to other situations. For example, you don't usually say 'Boxer then plants his fist in Opponent's jawbone'






    share|improve this answer
















    Saying just 'baby' or just 'mom' is using those words as names.



    Using 'the' in front of the other person is like using the third person for yourself. Without 'the' it's like you're using their first name as though it is 'Baby'. It sounds weird and is probably weirder sounding than using 'the', because 'baby' is a weird name for someone). But it is the way to refer to babies in these situations.



    I don't think it is transferable to other situations. For example, you don't usually say 'Boxer then plants his fist in Opponent's jawbone'







    share|improve this answer















    share|improve this answer




    share|improve this answer








    edited Jul 13 at 21:45

























    answered Jul 13 at 17:03









    MitchMitch

    55.8k17 gold badges113 silver badges230 bronze badges




    55.8k17 gold badges113 silver badges230 bronze badges










    • 4





      My 16 year-old is called "Baby" in the family as she is the youngest, just as her mother is called "Baby" by her mother still, even though she is past 50...so I don't think it sounds weird. Also, do you remember "Dirty Dancing"?

      – Cascabel
      Jul 13 at 20:53






    • 1





      @Cascabel Yes, of course. But in the specific context of the OP, it is definitely strange sounding.

      – Mitch
      Jul 13 at 21:35












    • I guess it depends on the relationship of the speaker to the little tike.;) I have to confess I was to lazy to go off-page and listen the the sound bite.

      – Cascabel
      Jul 13 at 21:37







    • 8





      This wording provides a way to personalize the infant without having to know a name. It's a way of taking specific instructions like you would give to a person you know, and generalizing them for a larger audience, while still retaining a sense of individuality. Each audience member can substitute their own baby everywhere the narrator says "Baby." It's also friendlier and less detached, which is good in promotional materials.

      – Goodbye Ms Chipps
      Jul 14 at 0:58













    • 4





      My 16 year-old is called "Baby" in the family as she is the youngest, just as her mother is called "Baby" by her mother still, even though she is past 50...so I don't think it sounds weird. Also, do you remember "Dirty Dancing"?

      – Cascabel
      Jul 13 at 20:53






    • 1





      @Cascabel Yes, of course. But in the specific context of the OP, it is definitely strange sounding.

      – Mitch
      Jul 13 at 21:35












    • I guess it depends on the relationship of the speaker to the little tike.;) I have to confess I was to lazy to go off-page and listen the the sound bite.

      – Cascabel
      Jul 13 at 21:37







    • 8





      This wording provides a way to personalize the infant without having to know a name. It's a way of taking specific instructions like you would give to a person you know, and generalizing them for a larger audience, while still retaining a sense of individuality. Each audience member can substitute their own baby everywhere the narrator says "Baby." It's also friendlier and less detached, which is good in promotional materials.

      – Goodbye Ms Chipps
      Jul 14 at 0:58








    4




    4





    My 16 year-old is called "Baby" in the family as she is the youngest, just as her mother is called "Baby" by her mother still, even though she is past 50...so I don't think it sounds weird. Also, do you remember "Dirty Dancing"?

    – Cascabel
    Jul 13 at 20:53





    My 16 year-old is called "Baby" in the family as she is the youngest, just as her mother is called "Baby" by her mother still, even though she is past 50...so I don't think it sounds weird. Also, do you remember "Dirty Dancing"?

    – Cascabel
    Jul 13 at 20:53




    1




    1





    @Cascabel Yes, of course. But in the specific context of the OP, it is definitely strange sounding.

    – Mitch
    Jul 13 at 21:35






    @Cascabel Yes, of course. But in the specific context of the OP, it is definitely strange sounding.

    – Mitch
    Jul 13 at 21:35














    I guess it depends on the relationship of the speaker to the little tike.;) I have to confess I was to lazy to go off-page and listen the the sound bite.

    – Cascabel
    Jul 13 at 21:37






    I guess it depends on the relationship of the speaker to the little tike.;) I have to confess I was to lazy to go off-page and listen the the sound bite.

    – Cascabel
    Jul 13 at 21:37





    8




    8





    This wording provides a way to personalize the infant without having to know a name. It's a way of taking specific instructions like you would give to a person you know, and generalizing them for a larger audience, while still retaining a sense of individuality. Each audience member can substitute their own baby everywhere the narrator says "Baby." It's also friendlier and less detached, which is good in promotional materials.

    – Goodbye Ms Chipps
    Jul 14 at 0:58






    This wording provides a way to personalize the infant without having to know a name. It's a way of taking specific instructions like you would give to a person you know, and generalizing them for a larger audience, while still retaining a sense of individuality. Each audience member can substitute their own baby everywhere the narrator says "Baby." It's also friendlier and less detached, which is good in promotional materials.

    – Goodbye Ms Chipps
    Jul 14 at 0:58












    1


















    In the BBC series "The Midwife", which follows a group of midwives in London's East End in the 50's, they use this all the time. The midwife will say something like "Well done, mom! You have a beautiful boy!" And "Here's baby, why don't you try feeding her."

    It creates a kind of professional intimacy: the woman is the midwife's patient but it's a bit more than getting the child delivered. The midwife often spends hours with the woman during the delivery, guiding her through a messy, physical, life-changing event, especially if it's a first child. Addressing the woman as 'mom' stresses the transition into her new role. Likewise, speaking of the child as 'baby' gives it a more personal touch without becoming too specific: it's not about little Jenny or Johnny as an individual but about its functioning needs as a baby.






    share|improve this answer






























      1


















      In the BBC series "The Midwife", which follows a group of midwives in London's East End in the 50's, they use this all the time. The midwife will say something like "Well done, mom! You have a beautiful boy!" And "Here's baby, why don't you try feeding her."

      It creates a kind of professional intimacy: the woman is the midwife's patient but it's a bit more than getting the child delivered. The midwife often spends hours with the woman during the delivery, guiding her through a messy, physical, life-changing event, especially if it's a first child. Addressing the woman as 'mom' stresses the transition into her new role. Likewise, speaking of the child as 'baby' gives it a more personal touch without becoming too specific: it's not about little Jenny or Johnny as an individual but about its functioning needs as a baby.






      share|improve this answer




























        1














        1










        1









        In the BBC series "The Midwife", which follows a group of midwives in London's East End in the 50's, they use this all the time. The midwife will say something like "Well done, mom! You have a beautiful boy!" And "Here's baby, why don't you try feeding her."

        It creates a kind of professional intimacy: the woman is the midwife's patient but it's a bit more than getting the child delivered. The midwife often spends hours with the woman during the delivery, guiding her through a messy, physical, life-changing event, especially if it's a first child. Addressing the woman as 'mom' stresses the transition into her new role. Likewise, speaking of the child as 'baby' gives it a more personal touch without becoming too specific: it's not about little Jenny or Johnny as an individual but about its functioning needs as a baby.






        share|improve this answer














        In the BBC series "The Midwife", which follows a group of midwives in London's East End in the 50's, they use this all the time. The midwife will say something like "Well done, mom! You have a beautiful boy!" And "Here's baby, why don't you try feeding her."

        It creates a kind of professional intimacy: the woman is the midwife's patient but it's a bit more than getting the child delivered. The midwife often spends hours with the woman during the delivery, guiding her through a messy, physical, life-changing event, especially if it's a first child. Addressing the woman as 'mom' stresses the transition into her new role. Likewise, speaking of the child as 'baby' gives it a more personal touch without becoming too specific: it's not about little Jenny or Johnny as an individual but about its functioning needs as a baby.







        share|improve this answer













        share|improve this answer




        share|improve this answer










        answered Jul 15 at 17:58









        Elise van LooijElise van Looij

        1313 bronze badges




        1313 bronze badges































            draft saved

            draft discarded















































            Thanks for contributing an answer to English Language & Usage Stack Exchange!


            • Please be sure to answer the question. Provide details and share your research!

            But avoid


            • Asking for help, clarification, or responding to other answers.

            • Making statements based on opinion; back them up with references or personal experience.

            To learn more, see our tips on writing great answers.




            draft saved


            draft discarded














            StackExchange.ready(
            function ()
            StackExchange.openid.initPostLogin('.new-post-login', 'https%3a%2f%2fenglish.stackexchange.com%2fquestions%2f504942%2fwhy-do-they-not-say-the-baby%23new-answer', 'question_page');

            );

            Post as a guest















            Required, but never shown





















































            Required, but never shown














            Required, but never shown












            Required, but never shown







            Required, but never shown

































            Required, but never shown














            Required, but never shown












            Required, but never shown







            Required, but never shown









            Popular posts from this blog

            Tamil (spriik) Luke uk diar | Nawigatjuun

            Align equal signs while including text over equalitiesAMS align: left aligned text/math plus multicolumn alignmentMultiple alignmentsAligning equations in multiple placesNumbering and aligning an equation with multiple columnsHow to align one equation with another multline equationUsing \ in environments inside the begintabularxNumber equations and preserving alignment of equal signsHow can I align equations to the left and to the right?Double equation alignment problem within align enviromentAligned within align: Why are they right-aligned?

            Training a classifier when some of the features are unknownWhy does Gradient Boosting regression predict negative values when there are no negative y-values in my training set?How to improve an existing (trained) classifier?What is effect when I set up some self defined predisctor variables?Why Matlab neural network classification returns decimal values on prediction dataset?Fitting and transforming text data in training, testing, and validation setsHow to quantify the performance of the classifier (multi-class SVM) using the test data?How do I control for some patients providing multiple samples in my training data?Training and Test setTraining a convolutional neural network for image denoising in MatlabShouldn't an autoencoder with #(neurons in hidden layer) = #(neurons in input layer) be “perfect”?